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Happiness is Within
I wanted to share something with all of you that is very hard to describe. Some of you already have this “magic” and some of you won’t understand, but I am hoping that it will assist just one person.
I don’t know if this is due to my age (46) or something else – who knows. I had heard for many years the statement that happiness is within. I heard it, it registered in my brain. However I didn’t have a clue what it meant. How can you be happy without a man in your life? Or without that house that I want or the garden? To me for most of my life, happiness could only be found outside of myself.
Once I got the “right man.” Once I got enough money. Once I got on the right medication, etc.
Now you DO have to be on the right medication for your disorder(s) obviously and for many of us that is a big thing. So many of us have taken years for that to happen. I include myself. It took years for MH professionals to figure out I have bipolar disorder and that’s why all the other meds weren’t working for unipolar depression.
Gosh here I am trying to find the words….all I can say is somehow along the way I have gotten to the point where “I feel comfortable in my own skin.” Those are my words and I don’t know how else to describe it.
I fully accept and love myself and here is another part of this happiness within stuff I’ve found. There is very little in life of importance to me. VERY little. I would say that maybe 4 or 5 things really matter. The rest is just fluff.
Imagine if you will in an airplane and you are sitting next to the window and you are looking down at the ground. The plane is low enough where you can see cars and houses. When you think about your life and your problems, etc., as you are looking down from that plane, don’t those problems seem rather insignificant?
Or when is the last time you have gazed at the stars? If you haven’t I highly encourage you to do that. Lay down flat if you can and really examine the universe above. Again, your problems seem rather small and insignificant.
When you can come to the place where you can see yourself and your problems from that angle most of the time, you will feel much less stress in your life.
Put things in perspective.
Tags: disorder, happinessHistrionic Personality Disorder
Personality traits are the way we perceive, relate to and consider our world and ourselves. They are what make us uniquely human, and what set us apart from all the other species on this earth. It is only when an individual’s personality characteristics are inflexible, and cause repeating patterns of behavior that disrupt his or her relationships with other people that he or she may be diagnosed with a personality disorder.
According to The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (American Psychiatric Association, 1994, pp. 657-658), the text used most often by American professionals to diagnose and treat behavioral health disorders, Histrionic Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
- Person is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention;
- interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior;
- displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions;
- consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self;
- has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail;
- shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion;
- is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances;
- considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are.
In other words, Histrionic Personality Disorder is characterized by a person who is always calling attention to themselves, who is lively, and overly dramatic. Minor situations involving this person can cause wild swings in emotions. He or she can easily become bored with normal routines, and crave new, novel situations and excitement. In relationships, a person with this personality pattern form bonds quickly, but the relationships are often shallow, with the person demanding increasing amounts of attention. It is generally because of these relationship problems (personal and occupational) that a person with this kind of disorder might seek counseling.
Treating personality disorders takes a tremendous commitment from the person diagnosed. It takes a desire to see him or herself as a human being who is willing to change. She or he must be willing to work hard toward that end, through all the challenges that may present. Treatment techniques will vary, depending on the theoretical orientation of the therapist consulted. Generally, cognitive therapists will focus on the irrational beliefs that cause the behavior patterns associated with this disorder. The client will then, over time, learn to reassess his or her way of thinking, leading to more healthy, socially acceptable behaviors.
Tags: behaviour, disorder, personlaityEnergy Psychology
The term energy psychology refers to a number of related energy therapies that are based on the Chinese Meridian System of medicine. Energy psychology quickly and thoroughly relieves mental health problems by eliminating emotional traumas or blockages from the mind/body continuum by touching or tapping key points on the body. Some of the more popular forms of energy psychology are Neuro Emotional Technique™ or NET™, Thought Field Therapy or TFT, and Emotional Freedom Technique or EFT.
All these energy psychology techniques were developed in the mid 1980s to mid-1990s, but are still rather unknown by the general public. These energy psychologies have been dubbed “power therapies” because they work so quickly compared to traditional talk therapy. This appears to be due in part because they target the more primitive parts of the brain. These would include the Limbic system, the Medulla Oblongata, and the Enkephalin system, which is in every cell of the body. EMDR or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing and Hypnosis are often included as “power” therapies although they do not directly utilize the Meridian System.
EFT, TFT, and NET™ all work by accessing the mind/body matrix or Meridian System in Chinese medicine. Chinese medicine addresses the body’s need for balance or homeostasis. If the Chi or energy of the body is in balance then it is assumed that the body will be able to cure itself and run at top efficiency. Practitioners assess the body’s balance by testing acupressure or acupuncture points in the body, which are divided up into 12 main Meridian Systems. These Meridian Systems are named for the main organs of the body such as the Lung Meridian or the Liver Meridian. Each of these systems corresponds with particular emotions. For example, the lung meridian is associated with grief and sorrow and the liver meridian with anger and resentment. Through a process of tapping acupuncture points on the body, trauma is relieved and homeostasis is reestablished.
NET™ or Neuro Emotional Technique™ theory postulates that we create our own reality and therfore are responsible for our own story. Even if the story of past abuse when a person is a child is accurate and valid we are still responsible for repeating it if we do not deactivate the repetition compulsion and neutralize the energy that is stuck.
This is why NET™ is so effective for the problem of PTSD and repetition compulsions. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is about delayed grief. Energy that becomes stuck. A large part of this traumatic energy gets stuck in the body and NET™ is incredibly effective in relieving this energy. Neuro Emotional Technique has the effect of allowing the client to reestablish homeostasis and therefore drain the energy along with the original belief behind the repetition compulsion.
When used in conjunction with insight oriented psychotherapy to understand the reason behind the self-destructive behavior, and EMDR to assist in shifting the short term memory loop of the trauma to long term memory, NET™ seems to complete homeostasis by bringing the body back into balance. This is a major breakthrough in the treatment for PTSD.
Applied Kinesiology tests the Chi or energy by taking a strong indicator muscle, almost any major muscle, and asking the client or patient to lock that muscle while the practitioner tries to challenge the strength of the muscle to see if it will hold its position. The practitioner might ask a client to hold their arm straight out in front of them and lock it, while the clinician with an open hand firmly pushes down on the arm right above the wrist.
The body consists of water and electricity. It is believed that muscle testing checks to see if the muscle has enough electrical activity in it to hold. It appears that Chi is essentially the same as this electricity. Dr. Goodheart, the father of Applied Kinesiology or AK, first demonstrated therapy localization. Therapy localization occurs when the therapist tests a strong muscle alone or in the clear. Then either the client or the therapist touches another part of the clients’ body to test if a change of muscle strength occurs. If it does, then dysfunction is assumed to be present in the localized area.
Chiropractors who practice AK routinely test or challenge a vertebra in the neck or the back, and if the muscle goes weak then they can assume that the vertebra is misaligned. They then put the vertebra back in and retest. When the muscle is strong it is assumed the vertebra is back in alignment. The client routinely reports feeling much better.
Although there are great similarities among these three main forms of energy therapies in that they all are based on Eastern medicine, there are also many salient differences, at least between TFT and NET™. Robert Callahan is the formulator of Thought Field Therapy. He developed his system after being introduced to Chinese medicine from a chiropractor who was practicing Applied Kinesiology, which is the same way that I became aware of these principles in 1990.
The energy therapies adapted and built on Dr. Goodhearts’ work by applying AK to the emotional arena. Emotions are energy and therefore emotions can be muscle tested through the electrical system of the body. TFT differs from traditional AK, however, because most of Dr. Callahan’s techniques do not utilize muscle testing except minimally. Instead he developed several algorithms of tapping certain acupressure points while thinking of a problem such as an addiction or a phobia. This method often allows the body to return to homeostasis and therefore the craving is reduced or the fear is alleviated. Not only is it a highly effective system for many problems, but recent studies have shown that it is quicker and more effective than CBT or cognitive behavioral therapy. However, many repetitions of the treatment are often necessary with this particular type of energy therapy.
Emotional Freedom Technique is an offshoot of Thought Field Therapy. It was developed by Gary Craig, a minister and personal trainer. There seems to be very little difference between EFT and TFT. EFT taps all the meridians with the rationale that thereby they are bound to balance the affected meridian. EFT also varies the affirmations used in TFT. Most of the following systems that are offshoots of TFT also differ mostly in slight variations of tapping and/or affirmations and were developed later than TFT. These other systems include BSFF (Be Set Free Fast), EDxTM (Energy Diagnostic and Treatment Methods), ESM (Emotional Self-Management), EvTFT (Evolving Thought Field Therapy), FFFF ( Freedom From Fear Forever), HBLU (Healing from the Body Level Up), HSE (Human Software Engineering), PEAT ( Psycho Energetic Auro Technology), Seemorg Matrix Work, TAAP (TAAP Training Institute), TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique), TEST ( Thought Energy Synchronization Therapies), and 3 in 1 (Three-in-One Concepts).
Dr. Scott Walker, a chiropractor and applied kinesiologist, developed Neuro Emotional Technique™ or NET ä in the early 1980′s. He developed his system independently from Dr. Callahan and within the same time frame. Both men were influenced by Dr. John Diamond who worked with Meridian systems in the late 1970′s and early 1980′s and developed Behavioral Kinesiology. Dr. Diamond stressed the use of positive verbal affirmations to change meridian systems.
All of the energy systems have great merit and are quite effective. What makes NET™ or Neuro Emotional Technique™ vastly superior and versatile is the tailored muscle testing that is the standard in this technique. Individual muscle testing makes pin point diagnosis of a problem possible.
Dr. Callahan was a cognitive behavioral therapist before becoming an energy therapist. Possibly because of this, practitioners of TFT often stress the theoretical importance of operant and classical conditioning or stimulus and response learning to explain why energy therapy is effective. Conditioning is certainly one of the main ways through which energy therapies work, but it is not the only component.
The essential reason that I believe NET™ is so much more effective than any of the other energy therapies is that part of the muscle testing protocol involves assessing for the earliest event where a feeling or problem originated. Because of this component the energy balance is more complete, and as a clinician there usually isn’t a need to repeat the corrections multiple times, which is often the case with the other energy therapies.
The theoretical basis behind NET™ is not only behavioral in nature, but psychodynamic. Freud’s concept of repetition compulsion is one of the central tenets of NET™. Freud believed that when a trauma is not fully processed or relieved an individual will develop a maladaptive symptom or behavior pattern in a fruitless attempt to resolve the original problem. A present stressor is more likely to become a trauma if it is similar to an event that was traumatic to an individual in their past. When the earliest trauma is relieved at the basic energy level, most present traumas collapse in response. Not addressing this earliest pain is the most common reason for psychological reversal, which shows up with much greater frequency in the other systems for energy rebalancing. Therefore, NET™ seems to be more thorough in its approach, although it is still relatively unknown by mental health practitioners and the general public compared to TFT or EFT.
The world continues to dramatically shrink due to the amazing advances in technology and communication. In the past knowledge was often encapsulated by individual cultures. The brilliance of Eastern and Western thought is now beginning to mingle. The scientific method of the West is now being applied to some of the techniques of the East. There have been several studies in Florida universities and South America where TFT has been proved effective and NET™ is now under extensive study at Oxford University. It will not be long until these recently discovered energy systems will take their place as accepted and respected treatment modalities. I believe that NET™ will become the gold standard of these mind/energy therapies.
Tags: anxiety, disorder, emotional, Psychology, stress